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NYC → San Diego, CA

My time in NYC has come to an end.

Billionaire's Row from Sheep Meadow in NYC

I'm nostalgic about this already. Everyone should be required to live here for a year, like the draft, to truly become an American.

Brownstones. You are the author of space and time.

All of the cliched things people say about New York City are true.

Olivia and Skyler at Tiki Chick in the UWS

I don't need to tell you what they are, you already know.

Citi Field - Let's go Mets!
Olivia and Skyler supporting the Yankees

There's this monologue written by Baz Luhrmann in 1997 called "Everybody's Free to Wear Sunscreen" that I like to listen to sometimes. He addresses the class of 1997 and dispenses some advice.

The Mets are the baseball team of the people

By my estimation he gives some pretty solid advice.

Skyler and me at Mr Purple
Oysters at Mermaid Inn
White Claws in Sheep Meadow

I'm not saying I follow his advice (although I do floss).

But in one part of it he says "Live in New York City once, but leave before it makes you hard."

NYC in the rain
The Empire State building

"Live in Northern California once, leave before it makes you soft."

I'm moving to Southern California, but it's close enough.

10 hot sauces

It's been an absolute blessing to live with Willem for 6 years. We've spent more time together in one room than anyone else.

The Head and the Heart
They messed up one song 3 times
GW Bridge on the way to 96th street tennis courts
Ran into Lucy (and puppy) by chance in CP
Central Park
Pasta and cabernet sauvignon for Willem
Viande Cafe

Mike and Will are moving/moved into the Amsterdam Ave apartment. I'm happy about this, because it's such a good spot. I'll be visiting soon.

Me and Keke
Skyler, Will, and Willem playing die in the courtyard
Mike using the fire escape entrance
Willem's rally cap
Lets go Mets!
Willem and Will, apartment in good hands.

Beaufort is so hot in the summer. The first couple days playing tennis in it was a shock.

Graeme sweats
a lot

Here are some videos of me and my dad playing.

This slipped from sweat i swear
Luna harassing me on the porch

Our dog Choo Choo passed away after almost 20 years on the earth. He lived a long and good life, and we miss him.

Choo Choo in a field
Choo Choo at lands end
Graeme, Luna, and Sunshine
My mom
back seat gremlins
back seat ogres?

On July 28, 2022 my mom and I started the drive west from the farm in NC to San Diego.

My mom in the muddy mississippi

I had never done a roadtrip west, and all I had to expect were romantic fantasies of what the adventure would be.

This is often different from the reality of what the adventure actually is.

Stowaway with the perfect soundtrack
This guy (gal?) was electric

Statues in New Orleans

Uncle Gary please come home, mama ain't sleeping!
Bourbon street

New Orleans is unlike anywhere I've been. It's trashy, yet somehow charming.

Listing all the states in alphabetical order is more challenging than it sounds.
Mississippi
My mom eating beignet in the car
Texas

Texas is big, and Austin seems to live up to the hype.

Barton Springs in Austin, TX
Austin to San Diego
Welcome to Austin

Peaches

I must say, car is not my favorite mode of transportation. But it is a great way to get a feel for the country, and this was a good experience.

Speed Limit 85
The American frontier
A very long train
Welcome to California
The Infiniti at White Sands national park, NM
Grandpa Greg and Joan in Phoenix, AZ
My parents when they were younger than me
Wind turbines in southern CA

We made it to San Diego in 3.5 days. This was not enough time to soak it all in - 3.5 weeks seems more appropriate.

Taco Azul

Now I'm in San Diego, and things are good.

Windansea, La Jolla